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Women are now equal to men in many aspects. Except in the matter of becoming pregnant, women can now do anything like men in bold way. They can drink, smoke, flirt and do anything they like. That’s the Third Wave Society on a whole. A few customs which have been pertaining to men all these years are now common for women too. They are buying even sex of their choice. It’s not in western context but in Hyderabadi milieu.
Guys in modeling field, body builders with soft background and college students are becoming sex workers for the desire of money. But the choice falls on the side of ladies as they are the ones those pay. There are pimps to act like bridge between the sex workers and rich ladies. They pull a few guys into this after knowing their family background. Pimps generally prefer guys with soft background as they deal with rich ladies in the society.
And how the business runs? Pimps call on a guy basing on the requirements of their client. The guy comes and stands at a light pole or under a tree at the stipulated time. The pimp takes the lady in a car to show the guy. The lady will not even button-down the glass of her car window. She simply observes the guy while the car moves and later tells her decision. The tryst will be decided by the lady only. Out of a minimum of Rs 25,000 shelled out by the lady, the pimp keeps Rs 20,000 for himself and pays Rs 5,000 for the guy. The guy shouldn’t give his direct number to the lady. He will be in the control of the pimp only. To keep the guys in control, the pimps choose the guys very selectively.
And it proves to be dream for men to have those trysts. But women wouldn’t be in tune with their dreams. It’s very seldom to find a beautiful lady, say some guys. Some are perverted although they look sexier and beautiful, they add.
“When I was bedded by a tall, fair and sexy lady I was with full of ectopic beat. But once she started showing her perverted approach in having sex, I was bewildered. I couldn’t even get erected and the attempt was a failure. Her acts were nauseate and disgusting. The lady got irritated and called on my boss reprimanding him. And he has shown his anger on me later. This gigolo job is not at all peaceful. And it is difficult to quit as well. Once we get into this, the bosses blackmail us if we don’t act according to their wish”, said Kumar (name changed) a college student.
“Men cannot be good sex workers. They should have erection to do that unlike women. But that is not possible every time. If man dislikes a woman, he will not get erection. But a woman can act to be a good lay for a man even though she dislikes him. ‘Activity’ goes on irrespective of woman’s feelings. But that is possible if a man fails to get erection. Then how can men be good sex workers? So gigolo culture is a flop”, says Amit (name changed), a model.
Spies and eyes are pinned on this newly emerging culture in twin cities. Majority of ladies those are looking out for gigolos for divorced, widows and single ladies between the age groups 29 and 45.